I had to laugh this morning. My friend and I were discussing what chores we did when we were kids and how little our kids expect to do. It all started when we began talking about how the men of a certain generation are proud, or disinterested enough, to be waited on by their wives. Yes, men have changed due to their womens’ revolt, but there are still holdouts.
My sons will be of the new generation of men who take care of their houses, children and lives right alongside their wives or significant others, but it’s taking a lot of effort to get them there. My sons are learning to cook, the right way to clean, and all of that, but they really don’t do what we did as kids, especially as “girl” kids. We knew how to cook a few meals, wash clothes and dust an entire house, for example. And then there were those things no one does anymore such as hanging out the laundry on a nice day. Frankly, it never seemed worth it to me until I crawled into bed that night with fresh sheets that smelled of the sun. Regardless, I don’t do that now. A dryer sheet that smells like the sun is good enough for me. Don’t get me wrong. My brothers and I did not have a ton of chores to do, but we definitely had to contribute to the household upkeep, if only to take care of our own rooms.
The part of the discussion that caused us both to cackle was when she mentioned that our mothers left us home alone at a much younger age than today. Well, maybe not that much younger, but it sure seems that way when we look back. What were they thinking?! I was lucky that my mom was home with us until I was about 12. Add to that the neighbor next store who would always keep an eye on us as we played with her children and the multitude of neighborhood kids, and you have safe kids while Mom finished up her day at work.
It’s not that way today, but we do our best with what we have. I am home with my kids and so is my friend. I often find myself at my computer finishing up an article while they hang out in front of the TV or play outside where I can see them. There are many of us who either work an off schedule so that a parent will always be with the children, work from home around our family’s schedules, like me, and others who rely on daycare. It’s all good. It will create self-sufficient people who, hopefully, will know how to take care of themselves one day.
What did you do around the house when you were a child? At what age? I would love to know your current age or the timeframe. I was a child of the late 60’s – early 70’s while my friend is a few years younger. Chime in and let us know the extent of your household chores.